Questions to Ask When Looking for Memory Care

For many families when a loved one with Alzheimer’s or another dementia-related disease needs more extensive care than family caregivers can provide, it may be time to look for a memory care community. That being said, many families want to know what they should look for and the best way to begin the search.

Experts say to remember to try and include the person as much as possible and listen to their input. The A Place for Mom senior living referral company offers a few questions to think about before you get started. These include:

• Does my loved one show aggression or other difficult behaviors, such as anger and agitation?

• Does my family member wander, get lost, or seek exits frequently?

• Is mobility a concern? Can my loved one walk independently, or do they require a walker or wheelchair?

• Does my loved one require 24-hour supervision?

• Does my parent need help using the bathroom?

• Does my family member need ongoing medical attention or treatments, such as dialysis, diabetes management, or colostomy care?

Once you have considered each question, you have a basis in which to start. The internet can help provide a list of senior living communities offering memory care that are within your desired location. Websites should also have plenty of background on the company, info on the number of memory care suites available and the services provided. Next, think about the type of person your loved one is. If they are social and like company, you may want to consider a shared suite. If they require a special diet, will the community be able to accommodate that?

Other questions from A Place to Mom deal with community amenities such as:

• What types of living arrangements or accommodations are available?

• Do residents or family members have a say in their daily routine?

• How many meals or snacks are provided each day?

• How are meals served? Are they served in a dining room or in their rooms?

• Are escorts to meals available in case your loved one needs help eating?

• Do fitness and wellness programs offer activities catered to different interests?

Additionally, you will want to know something about the community’s certification, the training the staff receives and their dementia techniques. Does the community take the time to get to know the residents’ history and uses it to enhance communication and care?

At the MorningStar of Arvada, our retirement communities offer independent and assisted living. Our distinct Reflections Neighborhood provides experienced, holistic memory care designed around the individualized needs of each resident. With 29 suites, we care for residents in an intimate, supportive and loving environment, where independence is encouraged through clear wayfinding and inviting common areas. Contact us to learn more about our independent living, assisted living, and trusted memory care Arvada, CO families count on. 

Source: aplaceformom.com/caregiver-resources/articles/memory-care-checklist