In many instances as a couple ages, they have wildly different health challenges. One partner may have several chronic conditions while the other is generally healthy. When this happens, the healthier of the two typically takes over the role of caregiver. However, if the person’s health needs continue to increase, it can take a toll on the person who is in charge of managing their loved one’s care.
Even if only one person in the couple needs help with the ADLs (activities of daily living) and things like medication management, moving into a senior living community together may be a good plan as well as make the transition easier. According to the AgingCare website, a good rule of thumb is that the spouse who needs the higher level of care should determine which type of senior living facility can best accommodate the couple. Moreover, Marissa Kirby, NHA, CHC, CHPC, and vice president of compliance at NEWGEN HEALTH, LLC., says, “When a couple has been married for many years, the ability to live together can make or break their decision on whether or not to move to an assisted living facility.”
There are many benefits for both partners in an assisted living community including helping the couple stay together longer when one of them requires more care. The US News & World Report says It also alleviates the full burden of care from the caregiver, which improves that partner's health and potentially improves the relationship. Both of the couple enjoy perks such as increased social interaction and ready access to preventive health care.
Many assisted living communities such as MorningStar of Beaverton welcome couples and have various plans available such as residing in the same suite, in separate units in different wings, or in separate semi-private rooms to help ensure they get the personal space they need while maintaining their relationship. In this scenario each person receives and pays for the level of care they need.
MorningStar of Beaverton’s integrated senior living model, seamlessly combines Independent and assisted living under one roof to promote smooth transitions and allow residents to age in place with confidence. Our 66 smartly-designed suites come in a variety of spacious studio, one-bedroom, and two-bedroom floorplans. For seniors with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia, our distinct Reflections Neighborhood provides 38 all-inclusive memory care suites for individualized, compassionate care. All residents enjoy peace of mind, personalized support, and a vibrant community designed to meet their changing needs. Contact us to learn about one of the finest retirement communities in Beaverton.


